Someone I know had a preemie baby, what can I do to help?

Totally out of the Blue someone you know has been thrown into the world of the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). You probably didn't even know a place even existed before this baby arrived sooner than expected. Many mothers have been blessed with pregnancy's that provided them with no complications or surprises except for the big question at the end "When will this baby get out of here!" Now someone we know and love is asking the opposite question "Why did this baby come early?"

The next question you are probably asking is "What can I do to Help?" and that is an excellent question. Here are a few suggestions that are not clothing related (that will be included in the next Blog post).

NICU Journal:

Preemie Journal

This unique journal published by the Preemie Store is an excellent idea because it gives parents a place to write down all those new things that Doctors, nurses, and other caregivers are throwing at them. There will be new terms, procedures, milestones, and so much more that parents will want to capture for future reference.

Here are two reviews, from the oldest to the newest! There are 41 Five Star reviews in between. 

An AMAZING way to keep your NICU journey documented! We are on our 2nd book (technically 4th since we have twins) and hoping we don't have to go any further (: but if we do we'll buy another set! It gives us a place to document how we are feeling, what is going on with the girls, and room for all the right information.

Reviewed by: The Moan's from Reading PA. on 3/30/2013 

Great Journal
My niece loves this journal. There is no way to remember what happens in a NICU, so noting each day is very helpful and a great reminder for later times.

Reviewed by: Eleanor Keating from Boston. on 9/27/2018

NICU Diary® - A Journal for preemie babies was designed especially for moms and dads who have babies in the NICU or Special Care Nursery. Social Workers and nurses often encourage parents to keep a daily journal. They know this can be a stressful time for you, or at the very least a change in your birth plans. This is your baby and every little bit of progress he or she makes will be important. The NICU Diary® gives you places to write weight gains, feeding changes, tests, oxygen needs and much more. You even have your own space for thoughts, feelings, and little notes. The NICU diary® records your baby's special start in life and gives you a treasured keepsake for years to come. ..Two detailed pages for each of 60 days. Extra pages for "baby's first" and Photos. Diary includes a gram conversion chart and a page to graph weekly progress. Sweet four-color cover. Special Spiral Bound Edition.


Milestone Cards:

Preemie Milestone cards enable parents to visually capture critical milestones a premature baby strives to reach. Each card has a milestone specific to a premature baby’s unique journey; "My first kangaroo cuddle," "My first breastfeed," "No more CPAP for me," "My first bath." The back of each card includes space to write the date, age, weight, and gestation of the baby when they reached the milestone. We carry three different Brands of Milestone Cards: Miracle Mama, The Little One, and Every Tiny Thing. They are all great, so whichever one you pick they are a great way to capture all the big milestones in the NICU.

Perfect Gift
I bought these for my neighbor with twin preemies at the recommendation of my sister who had a preemie. My neighbor LOVES these. She is using them to create a photo album. The babies are showing progress and growth, too!

Reviewed by: AT from Philadelphia. on 4/25/2018


Gift Card:

Everyone LOVES Gift Certificates! It's nice to be able to shop for what you like, and for a Preemie Mom that can be extremely exciting, it will give her something to look forward to. We have whatever options you would like listed under our Preemie Gear category. 

The other suggestions I have are not available at the Preemie Store but are perfect for preemie parents.  Gift cards to a local coffee shop, dinners delivered to the family, babysitting if there are siblings in the family, this type of support will be much appreciated. They will be spending many hours at the NICU, so anything you can do in the way of treats, like snacks, a new travel coffee mug (because I am sure they will be drinking plenty of coffee), magazines, books, soothing music, or even a cozy blanket would be welcomed. There will also be those times when they will need someone to talk to about the struggles of having a baby in the NICU, so listening may be all that is needed! It is difficult leaving your brand new early arrival at the hospital and going home, so the support we can offer is huge to these new parents.

Thank you for reading,